To my dear cousins, our dear Aunt Doris, and to the whole family - we feel your deep sense of loss and share your tears. A smart person recently told me in my own circumstance, and I share with you now in your time of grief, "He is such a huge part of who you are, how could you possibly be separated?". Grieve as you must, share your collective stories, treat yourselves gently, and be kind and love one another just as my Uncle Terry would want you to. Rich and I and Dad send all our loving support.