McNicholas Family, It is with great sadness that I send my condolences to you at the untimely passing of John. I just spoke to him in January when I was moving to London and we said we should always remain friends. He will always be such a special part of my life and I will never forget him and always love him. My heart goes out to you because I know how much he was loved and how important he was to the family. I am so sad I missed his services but he knows how special he was to me. Love and prayers to you...he will be greatly missed. Anne McCafferty

the mcnicholas family... With my sadness knowing I will never again hear that great "brooklyn accent" again I can take comfort in the privilege of knowing such an amazing human being who brought such joy and laughter to my life. His smile was infectious. When in New York John's excitement to plan some new adventure whether to a first time trip to "Fairway" on a busy weekend afternoon or the roller coaster at Coney Island John always knew just the right adventure to plan. I am so happy john called me shortly before he passed away and asked me to come for a visit with him in new york...that week will live in my heart always and I feel so blessed I got that special time with John.... The fond memories John gave me will help my heart heal. Heaven welcomed a wonderful angel and I know there is a much brighter star shining. John you are so missed and I thank you for being so wonderful to each of us in your short life..Rest in peace

My darling, my sweet Valentine just when we though that we found each other you were taken away form me, what happened to all our plans and dreams we made together. You were so wonderfull to me and I am so lucky you were part of my life. I love you Tereska

Dear John, Words cannot express how we are all feeling during this time. We are so saddened by your loss it's just so hard to understand. We Thank God everyday for the wonderful memories our family has shared with you especially during the holidays on Kimball St.. The laughs, the jokes, & all the funny stories will always hold a special place in our hearts. John, We Love You, Miss You & know that you will always look over us, until we meet again Cousin John :) xoxoxo Love, Maryann (Lil Mare), Billy & Noelle xo

May you rest in peace and find comfort in heaven above. All your friends are going to miss your contagious smile and your wonderful sense of humor. Peace be with you and your family.

Jane, Jack, Cathy and family, We're so beyond words, at your loss, and yet we wanted and needed to let you know that you've been in our thoughts and prayers all weekend. We pray that God will hold you in His arms and comfort you, as He welcomes John to Himself. Please know that you're in our hearts Love and God bless, Sue and Debbie

You made the week in the Hamptons, with the girls and Reinhardt, the greatest memory of my Flatbush days!! You and your family are in my thoughts!!!!!!!

We want to send our deepest condolences to the McNicholas family, Friends & Relatives - Our hearts, thoughts and prayers go out to all of you. John was one of a kind. His sense of humor and kindness touched everyone and all our lives are fuller because we knew him. Rest in Peace! We will miss you our neighbor and friend... Love, Prayers and Friendship Always- Mrs. Hughes, Harry, Phil, Mary and Rose XO XO.

I send my sympathy to your entire family. I did not know John, but knew a lot about John through his sister, Cathy. Cathy is a valued friend and co-worker who will do anything for her family. But you know all this already. Mr. & Mrs. McNicholas, you should be very proud of the wonderful son and daughter you raised to become the best friends of so many which is so obvious by the turnout for your son. God bless you and may your wonderful happy memories of John get you through the sorrowful days. Take care, Judy Frusciano

My deepest sympathy in the loss of your loved one. I am honored to know such a wonderful family and my prayers and thoughts go out to you from my heart. I wish the entire family strength in healing through this tough time. I believe your faith in God and strong family ties will help you along the way. Love, Shelly

All of our lives will be a little less full without you. I know I speak for all your friends when I say we will miss you dearly but will always be thinking of you

McNick Thank you for being a part of the fun on Flatbush, the Cuckoo's Nest, Greenfield's. Most of the time we laughed so hard our faces hurt. John you were a very special person. May your life in heaven be as rewarding as your life on earth. I will never forget you or the nick name you gave me. Christmas Carol

For all of the family and friends who are so sad my thoughts and prayers are with you. The last time I saw him we were laughing and having so much fun at John and Patrice Reinhardt's wedding. I laughed and enjoyed all of my visits to NYC with him and all of you there. McNick always made me laugh and I would always come back to Buffalo with one or more story of how much he made me and everyone around him enjoy being together. I am so blessed to have these friendships even if they are so far away from me in Buffalo. I had so much fun betting on the Bills/Jets games. I will always think of him when I hear a Johnny Mathis Christmas song. Thanks for that twinkle in your eye and that smile on your face...I miss you so. Judy from Buffalo

Dear Aunt Jane & Uncle Jack and Cathy & Gene, Words cannot express how saddened I am to hear of John's passing. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. I pray that you find comfort and peace through your love for eachother, and through the love and support of those who love you and John. You're a wonderful, loving family and my heart goes out to you. Please feel my hug. I'll always remember John's cheerful disposition and how his eyes sparkled with excitement when he laughed. I believe his spirit sparkles in heaven and he will always be with you. I keep you close in my thoughts. All my love, Liz.

Dear Jane, Jack and Family, I just do not have the words to speak I am so sorry to hear this sad news. Please know that I am only a moment's away if you need me. My heart, and my prayers go to you all. Colleen will take good care of John and they will both be looking down on us. I love you both. Bernie

My deepest condolences. Although I have not seen John in many years his memory will always be with me and his loss will always be felt. Sometimes I feel like I will never have friends like I had when I was a young teenager.

John - I Love you and always have - You will be missed and ALWAYS thought of - The Giuliano's have loved you since the day we met you. Forever in our hearts.

Just two weeks ago this day, Friday, March 20, 2009 at 12 noon, you (John) and I met on the spur of the moment. Walked briskly, sat opposite one another, had a sandwich, reminisced galore and you had the same energy as of when we met in 1981 as a student worker at St. John's University. Throughout all these years, as a student, professional staff member, a financial aid counselor who cared about our students, and then up the ladder as a lawyer, I could see you grow. And grow you did! Somehow or other, God must need good people, and good people with a zest for life. That you had, John! You survived it all when you were sick, and we prayed and prayed galore...but this, this is far too much. I, and we all, will never forget you. God bless the great memories, the good times and the spontaneous lunch that we enjoyed as I just happened to be across the street from where you worked...and you answered that phone. Thank God for that last visit. Rest in peace, John!

Johnny Mac - my fellow Neil Young fan friend - my Saturdays will never be the same without you! I am so glad for our last conversation and having the chance to catch up with you. You will be missed, but surely never forgotten (Johnny Rotten). I am fortunate to have known you. Rest in peace my friend and heartfelt sympathies and comfort to your family.

Mr. and Mrs. McNicholas, Thank you for raising such a wonderful son,John was an uncle to Carly and a best friend to Susan, myself, my family and anyone else who was fortunate enough to know him. John will be greatly missed but I am thankful to have known him and call him my friend, again Thank You both. Love, Susan, David and Carly