Condolences
January 13, 2010 Dear Sharon and Seth, I only learned of Joe’s passing this week, and I want to express my deepest sympathy. Clearly, Joe was a special man with a wide range of interests and abilities. Everyone he met could see his passion and talent. Although I was only a minor character in Joe’s life, and we did not have much contact since 1978, he was not a minor character in my life. Joe and Mark Bleeke founded the Four Moons and invited Alan Rasmussen and me to join the band. I believe that was in 1976. It was an a capella, doo wop quartet. This propelled me into a deep commitment toward music that dominated my high school years and continues to be a big part of my life today. We also sang together in a barbershop quartet as will as numerous choirs. The blend of our voices was recognized by our peers and our teachers, and we did pretty well in a barbershop competition even though we had only been experimenting with that genre for less than two months. But really, I was in awe of Joe and Mark, as I am sure Alan was. In particular, I remember that Joe could sing at least two notes lower than everyone else. I was fortunate to be there when he was gaining his confidence and coming into his own in terms of sight reading, interpreting and performing vocal music. In later years, I became one of the masses who savored hearing Joe sing oratorios. He really was a pro and by far the best bass I have ever performed with. One of the things that struck me in the notice about his passing was the array of things he had done. It reminded me that I was always struck by his discipline. Since he was two years older, I did not really follow his social life or his other academics very closely. However, when it came to things he cared about, he plunged in and set very high standards for himself. It is very difficult for a young family to lose their dad and husband, and my heart goes out to you. I hope that you are able to carry a little part of Joe around in your heart as I do. Sincerely, Peter Christianson
In loving memory of our neighborhood grandfather, Joe When we moved into our home here on Mouse Creek we were informed that this neighborhood needs no security system it has Joe and Stan. We slowly came to that same conclusion. Our first experience with Joe was when our 6 year old came running into the house grabbing our salt shaker stating that “Joe said if you put salt on the rabbits tail you could catch it!” With the utmost enthusiasm we watched our son run out, salt shaker in hand. Although we’d keep our distance and respect each others privacy there is no doubt that Joe was a silent reinforcer of good will for all his neighbors. He self appointed himself our children’s friend and was the go to guy for many of our kids questions. He readily made himself available by sitting outside on his chair. Any kid who felt the need for a chat would go sit by Joe. All the kids here on Mouse Creek got their first bike riding lesson on Joe’s perfectly manicured grassy hill. Some say it takes a neighborhood to raise a child, with a neighbor like Joe those children will grow up well served. Few people you meet in life need to say as little and do as much as Joe did. I hope he knew it, I know he enjoyed it, and to keep his spirit alive we should all practice making ourselves a bit more available. Joe, our dear friend, you leave us with only the best memories, great aspirations and a broken heart. Good people like you are rare, maybe because we just don’t give ourselves the time to go outside and sit. You now sit in the hearts of us all. We are so very grateful to have made your acquaintance.
Sharon, Seth and family of Joe, I offer you my sincerest condolences on the passing of a best friend and great man. He was one of a kind and truly a "good guy" to all that knew him. He kept me going and helped me through some tough times, and for that I am forever grateful. Some people count money as riches; Joe counted his family and friends as such. In this aspect, Joe was a millionaire.... Keep the still and the brewery going up where you are, my friend, so that when the time comes for me I will have a cold one and some 'shine waiting, along with someone I can laugh with. Until then, you are and will always be part of my life.....God Bless.
Dear Joe, Laddie Neil and I want you to know we are thinking of you and your family and extend our greatest sympathy to each of you. As ever, Virginia Neely Nashville
Our sincere condolences to Sharon & Seth on the passing of their husband and father. Joe was a wonderful man and it was a privilege to have known him. May God be with you, and all of Joe's family and friends, at this difficult time in your lives. God bless you all! Diane & Ed Wlazlowski
Our thoughts and prays go out to you and your family..
It has been an honor and privilege to know Joe. In Scouting, I always seen him helping out at camp builder weekends and OA Ordeal weekends. He truly lived his life of cheerful service. Joe and his son Seth also helped out as commissioners at Dan Beard Camp at Forestburg Scout Reservation. I recently had the privilege of working with Joe as his EMT Instructor at Jersey Shore University Medical Center. Joe was really looking forward to using his new certification to benefit scouting and his community. My sincere condolences go out to the Pate Family. Joe will be missed by both his Scouting Family as well as the EMS Community.
dear pate family i'm shocked by the death of joe .he will be missed by all who knew him. the people in the next life are listening to him sing his heart out. my condolence to you all !!! tom kiselica