Condolences
To the Mikula Family,
My deepest condolences to all of you. I knew Doug for many years and watched his growth as a musician, friend and father.
He is in my heart and prayers forever. God Speed Beautiful Soul!
Sincerely..Brenda Childs
Dear Mikula family,
Deep condolences on the loss of Doug Jr. I did not know him, but he apparently leaves quite a legacy. Until you meet again, may God hold you tight.
Michelle Herbert Dostie
Dear Mikula family,
Please accept my sincere condolences for the loss of Doug Jr. Obviously, this is particularly hardest for parents who have so much hope for their children's future. I hope that now goes to Donovan and sister who will need that revered attention, even more. BTW: I love that name, having grown up with Donovan music and visiting his haunts in Scotland and London during my early days. I had a few good songs in me before I wisely (in my case) traded my guitar for foreign service. Doug Jr's musical legacy will not be forgotten. So let's celebrate all the good that that he accomplished, which was more than most in a lifetime. And here's wishing Peace to all on Earth. Love to all, Chip
To Doug's family and close friends,
I don't know what words could ever comfort you at a time like this but I'm so sorry for your loss. Doug was an amazing person who I had the honor of playing alongside through high school bands, being around Drive, and jamming with him throughout the years.
What used to impress me most about Doug was his sheer musical ability.
But looking back, what made him so special was how great of a human he was. Despite his immense talent he was such a humble person. He never held himself above anyone else. He shared music with everyone. He was encouraging and open to everyone's creativity. Doug had a way of making you actually play better and feel like you were on top of the world.
I was fortunate to jam with him and Mike Neff in 2018. I was rusty at best, but because of Doug it was awesome. His love of music hadn't changed or waned in the slightest and he was the same person he always was. And while I'm saddened we will never get to jam again, I find myself so fortunate to have had the privilege of sharing so many musical moments with him.
My sincerest condolences. Rest (or rock) in peace, Doug.
Let me first offer my condolences to Doug’s family and close friends. May God, offer you comfort during this time of grief and still give you the strength to marvel at the blessing of his life.
I came to know Doug as a fan of his music and really only saw him when he came to play at the Blue Moon in South Amboy. Clearly, so very talented, I loved hearing him play. Although we became friends on Facebook, we were more so just acquaintances than anything else. But that didn’t matter, when in the presence of this young man you immediately knew, maybe not knew but felt, that you were in the presence of someone sweet, good, kind, and selfless. He exuded these qualities that I think we all aspire to, but he simply possessed.
I also was once privileged to have met and spend a little time with Doug’s parents at one of his appearances at the Blue Moon. Like Doug, the sweetest, nicest people. Doug may have been blessed with his heavenly qualities, but God had clearly provided him some help here on earth.
This world is so big, and I thank God for allowing Doug to touch my life. I hope I can be a little bit more like him. I met a musician; he left us, an angel.
Rest in peace my friend and thank you for spending some time with us.
To Doug sr and family.Our prayers and condolences go out to you and your family.No words can take away the pain,hurt,loss..So we are praying for God and Jesus to comfort you always.God and jesus bless Doug jrs soul into heaven and eternity…Willie williams jr and family.
The sky looked Extra Magical the other day & I know why, It has you up there now..Doug, I can’t put into words how Sad & Heartbroken I am over your passing.. I will never forget seeing you play your Guitar at Brookdale and being in Awe of your Amazing & Raw Talent. You were a True Musical Prodigy with such a Sweet & Kind Soul. You came up to me after your Set and we got to talking right away.. I remember thinking that you were so Cute and I was hoping that you would ask me out on a date and you did. After that night, We went out and you took me to dinner. You were a Gentleman in every sense of the word and I really liked you. We had such a Fun time and I will never forget the conversations that we had that night or the Big hug that you gave me at the end of the night. I remember writing each other MySpace messages when that was still around and texting each other back and forth. I also remember being Extremely Nervous when you called me asking me directions to my house because I had no idea how to tell you how to get there because I was so Bad with direction and you laughing on the other end of the phone..haha. We talked about Ourselves, Our Families and our Love of Music including who our Favorite Artists & Favorite Bands were. I could’ve talked to you all night that night.. Years later, We ran into each other again unexpectedly when you opened up for my Favorite Local band, “Status Green,” and I remember us being so Excited to see each other. You gave me the Biggest hug, You kissed me on the cheek and told me that I looked Great and I told you that you did Great on the stage that night. We caught up for a few mins and then we kept in touch on FB after that and I remember being so Happy for you when I saw that you were doing Well and had a Beautiful Son. I remember you telling me that Your Son was your whole world and I loved hearing you talk about him & seeing your photos and videos with him. You were such a Good Father and I was so Happy that you were on a Good path. We even talked about getting together again, but this time, with your Son. That would’ve been Nice.. We wished each other a Happy Birthday on Facebook every year and I will Miss You, Your Sweet Heart & Your Gorgeous Smile. Rest In Peace Doug & Soar amongst the Stars Handsome. I will keep you in my Heart Forever & I will remember you always. To Doug’s whole family & All of his friends, I am so sorry for your loss. I will keep all of you in my thoughts and prayers.
Love Always,
Lauren Altieri
I will always remember you.....dougie fresh and the not so evil band
My deepest condolences to the family, friends and the many people who loved Doug. He will be missed greatly but will live in our hearts and minds forever. Rest easy Doug.
Polite and kind. The first words to describe Doug’s character on day one, conversation one. Humble, generous, selfless, nonjudgmental, courteous, private, intelligent, artistic, beautiful, animal lover, musician, son, father, brother, grandson, nephew, cousin,friend, teacher, my partner in crime, huge appetite, clumsy in a gentle way, sweet, caring, silly, simple, talented, versatile, charismatic, sensitive, logical, confidante. The list goes on and on as you know. No word exists that can explain the sorry that I feel for his family. His friends. His students. People who never met him. The stranger without a home that he gave his coat to. The cashier at Wawa who met us when we first started dating. She rang us up and Doug said “she’s my girlfriend” and I blushed and said “and he’s my boyfriend”. I was floating on a cloud from day one. And even on the dark rainy days Doug brought sunshine …. that’s just what he did. He could turn a frown upside down, turn a negative into a positive. I am his Bonnie. He is my Clyde. My true partner in crime. My partner in life. To Mr and Mrs M….. I am forever indebted to you for creating such a graceful man. To his sister Becky….. I have gained a sister and I love you. To Donovan…..your Daddy told the BEST bedtime stories. And every character that has been added into those stories over the years can visit you in your dreams so that your memories can always feel playful. To his friends…..you know how blessed you are. To the musicians…… you will always have a role model (and most likely always try to catch up to his level but not quite make it). Do Doug….. baby, all the muches for all the evers. You complete me in all the areas where I lack something. You are my sunshine.