We are all thinking of you and sending our warmest thoughts to your family during this difficult time.

Dear Melissa, Mr. and Mrs. Haneke and family,

I cannot believe it's been nearly a year without Dave, although in some ways it feels even longer. I know the one year anniversary can be extremely difficult and wish you all peace in the belief he is comfortably resting in his sneakers and shorts in the warmth of the sun near the shore and surrounded by the animals he so loved. In the past year I have thought of thousands of stories and experiences I would have loved to share with him in person or by email but feel like he knows nonetheless, and still gets a chuckle out of them.

Rarely at a loss of words I would like to share two stories with you. The first was when our dog of twelve years had to undergo radiation for a nasal tumor shortly after Dave's passing. As I sat in the waiting room scared out of my wits, I prayed to Dave to help her through the harrowing experience and she made it through fine. The radiation allowed our beautiful dog to stay with us another eight months, which I credit in large part to Dave's intervention.

The second story came in January, after we adopted a new dog who had been rescued from the streets of Missouri then the chopping block, and brought to New Jersey. She was advertized as "quiet and shy" and "having never known love," exactly the girl to help us through our own mourning. She was and still is a nervous dog, occasionally scared of her own shadow and the sound of her own voice. After being home approximately one month she broke away one night on a walk, on the coldest, windiest, darkest night of winter, with temperatures in the single digits or less with wind chill. While my husband unsuccessfully searched through the night, I looked for as long as I could before giving up all hope, crawling into bed and praying my heart out to God, St. Francis, my mother and my animal-loving friend, Dave, knowing that nothing short of a miracle from heaven could bring her back or even help her last through the night. Well that miracle happened and the next morning my young son looked out the window and saw our girl in the neighbor's yard, leash attached to a fallen branch, quietly nestled in a pile of leaves with a shed blocking her from the harsh winds. She was not only alive and well, but actually happy to be back in her forever home. I can only assume God and St. Francis are awfully busy, but know that Dave was out there with Sheba all through that cold dark night keeping her safe and close so that she could come home to us. I don't know how I know he was out there watching over a dog he never met but I do, just like I know he's out there watching over those he loves. His replies may not be as pronounced as saving the life of a poor, scared dog who had never known love but they're there, in every amusing thought, a new pair of sneakers, every day off and a warm day at the beach. Please know that we think of him fondly and often, and hope your thoughts of him bring you as much comfort as he has brought to us.

Don and Lia--It's been years since we have seen one another. I am so sorry for the loss you and your family have sustained in David's death. Altough I did not know him, it is quite clear that he was an exceptional person , and loved by many who crossed his path. I extend my sympathy to you and the entire family at this time of sorrow. AMOS

To the Haneke Family--So sorry to learn of your loss. It seems like it was just yesterday that Lia and I shared responsibility for Dave and Jonathan's Cub Scout troop, with sisters Lisa and Jennifer in tow. My thoughts and prayers go out to the whole family during this difficult time. Nancy

My deepest condolences to Melissa and the Haneke Family - I had the privilege of working with Dave when he was transferred to our Trenton Office. I will always remember his great smile, wit and sense of humor. He had the gift of making us laugh and putting smiles on our faces when we least expected it. He will truly be missed...May the Lord give you peace during this difficult time.

Dave was a sharp guy and had a great sense of humor. During my first conversation with Dave I was introducing myself and informed him that I worked in Camden in the Supervision Unit. Dave's face became serious, he shook his head and said, "Geez, Supervision in Camden... Good luck with that one!" I still chuckle to this day when I think our first meeting.

I met Dave when he started in federal probation but really came to know him after he transferred to the Trenton presentence unit. Once I learned of his biting wit and sarcasm, I was sure we would get along fine. Ironically I only called him Dave when I really needed a favor, otherwise he was Haneke, or "ole buddy ole chum" if I really, really needed a favor. He offered a perspective on life that was different from many others and believed what he believed without reservation. Never one who wanted to draw attention to himself nor one to drop in to chat, you had to seek him out or you might miss him entirely. He was the go-to guy whenever I was stuck in traffic or was otherwise annoyed - which was more often than you might think - and he would find some way to turn it into laughter. Days in the office were better just for his being there and, if he wasn't, you bombarded him with emails which he might or might not answer, but you know he always read. He was a common target of practical jokes because he didn't want the attention, could take it with humor and was so well liked. His verbal jabs were a welcome diversion and his idiosyncracies always amusing. He was the guy you would miss when he was out, and we've missed him these past months. When you see someone nearly five days a week over a career you don't really notice how, over time, they become such a part of your life. Thank you for the laughter ole buddy, ole chum.

I was just reviewing all the beautiful heartfelt condolences and thinking "Goodness that's what I was going to say." Which I guess is the most beautiful redundancy ever. Dave has the best sense of humor, is kind, is funny, could make anyone laugh. And he knew just how far he could take it with each person which is a special gift in itself. Simply put Dave lit up people's lives and the world is a bit darker today without him in it. Till we meet again my friend. XO My heartfelt condolences go out to Melissa and the Haneke Family, but Melissa like you said, "You are lucky" because you had him in your life. Considering this board it seems like your definitely not alone in that emotion.

Dear Lia, Don, Melissa and family - Please accept my sincerest sympathies on your loss of David. I recently lost my brother, Pete, and I know the terrible emptiness you are feeling. Love and prayers from Eileen, Brad, and Melissa Reider.

To the Haneke Family, I had the pleasure of working with Dave when he first joined the U.S Probation family. A pleasure it was. Dave is one of the nicest people I have ever met. His kindness and humor will always be remembered. A great loss to us here on earth. You are all in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. May your cherished memories eventually replace your tears and bring you comfort and peace. With deepest sympathy.

I had the privledge of sitting next to Dave when we worked together at the Hudson County Probation Dept. Since his first day at our office he brought joy and laughter. I will never forget his quirky sense of humor and that little boy mischievious twinkle in his eyes when he would be in the middle of one of his pranks. He was such a special,caring person. My most hearfelt sympathy to Melissa and to Dave's family. He will always be remembered in my heart. The world has lost one of its best.

My condolence to Melissa and the Haneke Family, Dave will certainly be missed. Dave and I always shared our cat stories and fondness for animals. We often laughed at the funny things the cats/kittens would do when they wondered in his yard, only later to become apart of his family. Dave also was quite the card. He would always come up with some smart comment when I least expected it. But most of all, Dave was a wonderful person, serious at times, but always there to lend a helping hand. Rest in Peace my friend.

I had the esteem pleasure of working with Dave at the Hudson County Criminal Division. He was such a nice guy with a great sense of humor! He will truly be missed; my thoughts and prayers go out to the entire Haneke family during this most difficult time.

I met Dave in 2006 at the Federal Law Enforcement Training Center in South Carolina. During the 5 weeks that we were there, I got to know Dave and learned that he is one of the funniest people I know. Sadly, I haven't kept in touch with him very much since then and am so sad to hear of his loss. I pray for his wife and family and send my sincere condolences to all of you during this extremely difficult time. Sending healing thoughts your way.

I wanted to sent my sympathy to Melissa and all of Dave's family. I worked with Dave for many years in the Trenton office. He was so caring and a wonderful friend. I will truely miss him dearly. He was a tresured addition to our office. He had some of the funniest stories to tell and his sense of humor was fantastic. He was a great sport especially around April Fool's Day. I will also always think of Dave when I see or each cheese doodles. Rest peacefully Dave, my friend.

Heartfelt condolences to Melissa and Daves's Family! Love, Hugs ~n~ Prayers to all of you!!!

I am so very sorry to hear of David's passing. My deepest sympathy to all who loved him.

I had the priviledge of knowing Dave for approximately 8 years. He was a kind and caring person. As I looked at all these pictures of him, I am saddened because the world just lost a really great guy. Rest easy my friend, you were one of the best

The loss is felt to dayas well as for years to come, yet this fact doesn't make anything easier. My prayers will always be for your family.

To the Haneke Family. I am truly at a lost for words. I was utterly shocked to learn about David's passing. He was a very nice person whom I had the honor of working with for 6 years. My deepest sympathy to all of you. He will truly be missed. He is now smiling down upon us all and he will forever bring a smile to our faces as we think about our own individual time we spent with him as he touched our hearts. Rest in Peace Dave and thank you for not only being a colleague but to some of us a friend. I will miss you.

Dave was my ‘next door neighbor’ here at work. Through the wall, I would hear him call my name for me to come help him with his computer. I can’t believe I’ll never hear Dave call for me ever again. One of my fondest memories was the day he pointed at the picture of the beach that still hangs in his office and he said “I would like to be there right now.” He told me he often looked at that picture and envisioned himself sitting in one of those chairs. I know that God has set Dave up with the best chair on the most beautiful beach so that he can enjoy the most wonderful ocean for all eternity. I’ve cried and cried since I heard of his passing, but there has been a lot of heartfelt smiles as I remember his humorous ways. You just had to love Dave. What a good man. What a special, kind soul. He will always be remembered and sorely missed. To Melissa, Dave’s parents and all his friends and family, please accept my deepest sympathy. You are in my thoughts and prayers. I pray the Lord strengthen us all.

I would like to extend my prayers and deepest sympathy to the Haneke family and to all those who knew Dave in this time of sorrow.

My friend and co-worker in Hudson County, my fellow Mets Fan. You will live forever in our hearts. Our sincerest condolences to your wife and family.

My deepest sympathy to the Haneke family. My sister in law died two years ago after failing to receive a double lung transplant. I have an idea what your family is going through. David will be truely missed, he was a great person.

How does one put into words, the fact that although I haven't spoken to Dave in a long time ... how he deeply impacted my life. There are few people that I know that have brought NOTHING BUT JOY TO MY LIFE ... DAVE IS ONE! His humor ... was one of a kind ... to this day, I get belly laughs thinking of him and his humor. As a co-worker for the Hudson County Probation Department, he made what can be a very stressful job ... one that I looked forward to ... because of Dave. I can't say enough good about him ... since all I witnessed from his life was good! I am sad for his parents and Melissa, but I know they should honestly know, there are people that you don't know ... that have bared witness to the KIND, GENTLE, LOVING AND FUNNY SOUL DAVE IS/WAS! I thank him forever for my laughs.

On behalf of our family, we extend our prayers and sympathy to your family in this time of sorrow.

I will always remember David hanging at my house with my son Bryan and friend Joel. They were like the three muskateers. He was such a wonderful young man. He will be missed by many. My condolences to his wife and parents and family.

Dave was so sweet and kind and loved his wife, family and NY Mets. We are so saddened about his passing and extend our deepest condolences.

I am deeply saddened to hear of Dave's passing. May your memories of him give you comfort during this time. Please accept my deepest sympathy and know you are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Melissa and family, These are beautiful pictures of a wonderful husband, son and brother. I first learned of Dave's exceptional probation work when he was with the Hudson County Probation Office, when I learned he joined our Federal team I knew we picked a superstar. He will be greatly missed by all of us. David will leave a legacy of charm, compassion, and exceptional professionalism. I am so sorry for your loss.

I am so sorry for your loss, I have many wonderful memories of David, my deepest sympathy to your family in this extremely hard time.

From the time he was born, always sweet and kind. You are a true champion and fighter. May you find eternal peace in heaven where I know you are today. Words cannot express my heartfelt sentiments on your passing.

I was Shocked to hear of Dave's passing, so deeply sorry for your loss. May you find peace during this time of sorrow.

My thoughts and prayers go out to all who knew Dave. He will forever be my friend and the memories will never be forgotten.

Matt and Kim Stillman made a donation to MONMOUTH COUNTY SOCIETY FOR THE PREVENTION OF CRUELTY TO ANIMALS

During this difficult time we would like to extend our most heartfelt sympathies. If you ever need a friend to help you through this, you know who to call. We will be here for you, anytime, all the time. We love you Melissa. Dave will be missed so much, he was one of a kind. Love Matt, Kim, Ryan Katie Jack and Rex.

The Laskey Family made a donation to MONMOUTH COUNTY SOCIETY FOR THE PREVENTION OF CRUELTY TO ANIMALS

Our thought and prayers are with you at this difficult time. With love, The Laskey Family

The Douvris Family made a donation to MONMOUTH COUNTY SOCIETY FOR THE PREVENTION OF CRUELTY TO ANIMALS

We are very sorry to hear about your loss. From our family to yours, our most heartfelt sympathies.

Lisa, Frank and family made a donation to MONMOUTH COUNTY SOCIETY FOR THE PREVENTION OF CRUELTY TO ANIMALS

Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. David had such a beautiful smile, a ray of sunshine! In time, we pray you will find comfort knowing he is now breathing easy and at peace. God bless David and all of you!

lisa cassidy made a donation to MONMOUTH COUNTY SOCIETY FOR THE PREVENTION OF CRUELTY TO ANIMALS

my heartfelt condolences....he was a great man

Rosalie and Anne made a donation to Jersey Shore Animal Center

During this difficult time I would like to extend my most heartfelt sympathies. If you need a friend to help you through this, you know who to call.

Margo A. Potter made a donation to MONMOUTH COUNTY SOCIETY FOR THE PREVENTION OF CRUELTY TO ANIMALS

To the Haneke family, Unfortunately, I did not have the pleasure of meeting David, only spoke by phone. However, since we both worked for the district court here in Trenton, I felt like I knew him personally. I, too, am very fond of all animals and want to extend this contribution in his name. God Bless you and your family at this difficult time. My thoughts and prayers are with you always. Margo A. Potter Office of the Federal Public Defender (Trenton)

Jean Cavaliere made a donation to Jersey Shore Animal Center

During this difficult time I would like to extend my most heartfelt sympathies.

Lois Goodman made a donation to Jersey Shore Animal Center

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. I wish I could be at the visitation to give a hug but will be away. My thoughts are with you.

Eric and Kim Gullstrand made a donation to MONMOUTH COUNTY SOCIETY FOR THE PREVENTION OF CRUELTY TO ANIMALS

We are very sorry to hear about your loss. From our family to yours, our most heartfelt sympathies.

Trudy Calabrese made a donation to MONMOUTH COUNTY SOCIETY FOR THE PREVENTION OF CRUELTY TO ANIMALS

I am very sorry to hear about your loss. From my family to yours, our most heartfelt sympathies.

The Gallucci Family made a donation to MONMOUTH COUNTY SOCIETY FOR THE PREVENTION OF CRUELTY TO ANIMALS

We make this donation in loving memory of David Haneke. May God grant him eternal joy and happiness until we are all together again in heaven.