To the family and loved ones of John Lazarus. I'm in the process of updating our contact list of Theta Chi brothers and just found out about John's passing in 2012. I am so sorry to have lost contact with him over all the years. What a great lesson for us all to "not" lose contact with friends, family and loved ones. My name is David Specker and I was John's (Laz) big Brother with Theta Chi. When you pledge a Fraternity you make your Big Brother a paddle. The one Laz made me hangs in my bedroom right now in my daughter's home in Princeton, NJ. and is posted on this site. I live here about 3 months a year and the rest in Fort Myers, FL. I know far too well how the loss of a loved one affects your emotions. I lost my wife 13 months ago today after almost 54 years. RIP Laz. We had a ball at Rider and from your obit, you obviously had a great run at life.

I to like others was visiting my childhood memories . John and Kenny happen to pop into the memory banks. My mom and dad were best friends of my Uncle Johnny and Aunt Margret so many years ago ( about 50 - 60 years ago). My dad was shot at the battle of iwo Jima and these guys were tough. When they were friends they were the best of friends. I remember as a kid , just how proud Uncle Johnny was of Irish . And how could you not be proud of Kenny. I just felt I needed to share the pride of a dad and the joy my Uncle Johnny felt towards his boys My condolences, GlennYpa2

I just thought about John. Tried to find him on Facebook. Then looked on Google and found his obit. Makes me sad I didn’t reach out years ago. We served together in Vietnam and we went on R and R to Hong Kong together. We enjoyed each other’s company. My memory is terrible now but we might have spent time in Pendleton in training before going to Vietnam. R. I. P. and Semper Fi.

My Uncle John was one of the best people I've known. His thoughtfulness, love of family, curiosity, and strength all taught me what it means to be a good person. He never forgot to send a birthday card or a Christmas. He would do anything for his family. He loved learning about people and ideas in such a thoughtful way. His strength and scrappiness was simply unimaginable. Not being able to see him anymore makes me too sad for words, but I'm comforted by all of those wonderful memories. I hope to live my life as proudly and gracefully as he lead his. Love, -John "Chip" Lazarus

Dear Debbie and family, We are so sorry for your loss. The best thing that ever happened to us was your moving to Green Meadow Drive. John, when I first came to your door, I was apprehensive when seeing "Sophie". However, your "magic" with Sophie quickly showed us how gentle she was and it wasn't long before you, Debbie, Dave and I grew to be great friends (like family)!!! We will miss you dearly!! We know that you will always be a "guardian angel" in our eyes!!! Love you, Dave & Toni

Debbie, My prayers are with you and your family. I am sorry for your loss. Steve Bayles

Thank you John for your service, but more than that, thank you for you bravery as you faced illness, experimental treatments and changes for which most people are unprepared. I will always be in awe of your strength, and respect your intellectual approach to dog training, politics, and nutrition (many a lively dinner conversation). I am glad that you and Debbie found each other, happiness, and also a way to blend friends and family so seamlessly. Debbie, you are my best friend and an amazing woman, I am so proud of your determination and strength through the last forty odd years. John, we will miss you and remember your easy smile, love of family and sincere interest in the people around you. We love you, . John, Ellen and the girls