To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say. But first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay. I'm writing this from the Bridge. Here I dwell with God above. Here there's no more tears of sadness. Here is just eternal love. Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight. Remember that I am with you every morning, noon and night. That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through, God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you. It's good to have you back again, you were missed while you were gone. As for your dearest family, They'll be here later on." God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do. And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you. And when you lie in bed at night the day's chores put to flight, God and I are closest to you... in the middle of the night. When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years, because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears. But do not be afraid to cry it does relieve the pain. Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain. I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned. If I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand. But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er. I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before. There are rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb; But together we can do it by taking one day at a time. It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too; That as you give unto the world, the world will give to you. If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain; Then you can say to God at night... "My day was not in vain." And now I am contented... that my life was worthwhile. Knowing as I passed along I made somebody smile. God says: "If you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low; Just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go. When you're walking down the street with me on your mind; I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind." "And when it's time for you to go... from that body to be free. Remember you're not going... you're coming here to me." You will be truly missed. You touched so many peoples lives and truly touched ours and our families. With all our Love

Dear Gabe and family, We just read about your wonderful Mary. We are so very sorry for your loss. Mary was the kindest and gentlest person I ever knew. She always had a smile on her face The love the two of you had for each other showed each and every time we met you. May God bless each of you at this very difficult time.

Heaven has just been enriched, whereas a little corner of the mortal enclave suffers its loss.....Mary Imbemba, accompanied by her hubby Bill and wonderful sons, have singularly stamped their presence' as well as their profound "freundlichkeit" on oh so many souls, certainly mine/ours. Whereas unfortunately time, geography and other concerns prohibited a more complete lifelong interaction, isn't it a marvel that despite these challenges, Aunt Mary's memory transcends all of these peculiarities.... Aunt Mary represents the arrested moments, the suspended calendar, the frozen seasons of life. Incubation periods for reflecting upon her life and absorbing the experiences she represented, largely projected the historical goals and fantasies of tomorrow. Her spirit comes gently in quiet moments of loneliness and solitude. What a profoundly marvelous woman.... Our sympathy...the tranquility she represented to me...refreshes, and the tears of the mind wash the shores of the soul.

My fantastic Aunt Mary, there are not enough superlative adjectives in the dictionary to best describe Aunt Mary. It has been said it takes a village to raise a child. Yet,Aunt Mary and Uncle Bill raised several families simultaneously in a seemingly effortless manner. However, we all know it was only accomplished with deep love,profound commitment and much personal sacrifice. Dear Uncle Bill, Eugene and Pat, Tom, Billy and Diane and all her much adored grandchildren and great-grandchildren, may the joy of fond memories,irreplacable and priceless bring you comfort. We have all been blessed with her prescence in our lives. Rest in heavenly peace, Aunt Mary. We thank you for everything.xxo

My beloved Aunt Mary- I will miss you and love you forever. You and Uncle Bill are the kindest, most gentlest of everyone in the family and I will treasure you forever. YOu taught me much. I will never forget the many summers I spent as a child on your back portch eating swiss cheese and how you took care of me, your gentleness, lvoing spirit and human goodness will live forever in my heart. I know that heavens gates opened wide for you yesterday. My condolenses and deep sympathy to Uncle Bill, watching him care for ou over the last few years showed me what true love is - he did such a great job and we are all so proud of him. Bill, Eugene and Tommy and all of your families my thoughts and prayers are with you now and forever.

There are no words, certainly none I can come up with, to relate how special and wonderful a woman my Aunt was. Simply, she is the most beautiful woman I ever met. One who cared for her family and friends deeply. Aunt Mary was so good to me growing up, and did so much for me that it is impossible for me to ever forget or lack deep appreciation and gratitude. With my Uncle, the two were the most special couple I have ever known; a kind, compassionate, gentle, caring, and loving couple. My prayers are with Uncle Bill, my cousins Eugene, Tom, and Bill, and her entire family.

Rosemarie Mirabella made a donation to Alzheimer's New Jersey

In fond memory of my beloved Aunt Mary. May you rest in peace and do good work amongst the other angels like yourself in heaven. You will remain forever in my heart. I love you. Your neice Rosemarie Mirabella and Family