Dear Jan, I am so sorry for the loss of your mother. You, Paul and family members are in our prayers. She is now at peace with your dad. As you know it is hard to be away from the ones we love so much, so maybe that was why he tapped her on shoulder and she went to him. They just needed each other. I hope that you find your peace knowing they are smiling down at all of you. Love always, Your friends on the other side, Gina, Bill and Robert