I am so sorry to learn of Mrs. Sfaelos' passing. I want to offer my sincere condolences to Mrs. Sfaelos' family and friends. In the 90s, Mrs. Sfaelos was my fifth grade teacher at West Freehold School. I am grateful for her seeing my potential, to the extent that she referred me for Shared Time (the Gifted and Talented program). I am grateful for her referral--especially as one of a few children of color at the time. As an adult now, I can appreciate how bold her referring me to the program may have been at the time. We may never fully know what kinds of lasting impact having someone in our lives like Mrs. Sfaelos--especially at a formative age--being in our corner, rooting for us, may have on our lives. We can just be grateful that such a person existed and thankful that God saw it fit for us to have been blessed by that person. May God continue to bless and comfort her family. May we live out her legacy of seeing in each other what people typically do not see. Thank you for this opportunity to pause and reflect on a wonderful soul. Until we hopefully meet again, Mrs. Sfaelos. Sincerely, Phillip Blanc, MD, MPH

"And God shall wipe away all tears from their eyes; and there shall be no more death, neither sorrow, nor crying, neither shall there be any more pain: for the former things are passed away." Revelation 21:4

What a wonderful teacher and a beautiful person Pat was. God bless her for all the care and love she showed to her students. My three sons were all fortunate enough to have her as their fifth grade teacher at the old West Freehold School in the 1990’s. Each of them remembers her fondly as a great teacher who pushed them to their potential. Her daughters should be very proud of the life she lived helping others and encouraging others to do their best.

I’m so sad to hear about Mrs.Sfaelos! She was one of my favorite teachers growing up. I was in her 5th grade Social Studies at Applegate and will always remember doing our hand motions to the preamble of the constitution, standing on our chairs to demonstrate Cortés and his Aztec takeover, and of course spelling bee! Sending my love and prayers ❤️

Kristy, Al, Zach, Sue, and Lauren,

We were so sorry to hear about Pat and we're sending our love to all of you.

I have known Pat since I was very young. Her parents were friends of my parents and she babysat for me when I was about 2 or 3. I had lots of memories of Pat, her Mom and Dad Dotty and Gene, and her brother Gene. I remember her sweetness, her smile and her laugh. I haven't seen her in many years, but I know she was a proud Mom to her three beautiful daughters and I'm sure she was the best Grandmother she could be. My heart felt sympathy goes to her family and dear friends. May she be smiling and laughing eternally. She was a beautiful person.

Karin Obrien

Our deepest sympathy for the loss of your mother and may she rest in eternal peace. Aunt Pat was an angel and will always hold a special place in my family's heart. We were so fortunate to have spent time with her down the shore and hear so many wonderful family stories. These memories and her love of family will never be forgotten by us. May your memories give you peace and comfort during this difficult time.

Much Love,

Vicky, Bradly , Brooke, Blair & Blake

"The Mackie Clan"

I was so very sad when I heard of Pat's passing. I loved your mom! She worked with my mom, taught my kids and then I got to work with her. She was the BEST! My prayers for comfort for the entire family.

I will never forget you, Patty, for what you did for us. We will continue to pray for you, even though we are confident that you are in heaven already. Cousin Bob

So sorry to hear about Pat's passing. I remember how she used to have lunch bunch and practice for the spelling bee with her students. She always went above and beyond. I also have a few pics of when she modeled for a fashion show. Good times. She will be greatly missed.

I am so sorry to hear about Patty. She was quite a teacher and taught me much. As a team member at West Freehold School I always was teasing her telling her she is always late and I use to fool with her telling her she is going to be late for her own funeral. I guess God had other ideas. Have remembered Patty in all my Masses and prayers since you called, Sue.

God Bless Patty and all of you. Wish I could be there.

Kay Dowling

I'm so sorry to hear Mrs. Sfaleos has passed. She was my practicum teacher 36 years ago; at the time she was teaching 5th grade at the old West Freehold School. I learned many things from her that I took with me on my teaching journey. To this day I still put children first and remember to have some fun--oh, how we all loved silent ball! Many years later, when she switched buildings to the Applegate School I found myself once again having the privilege to work and learn from her. However, this time when I worked with her I was an administrator. It felt so strange but I remember Pat still providing me with pearls of wisdom and being so proud of me. Thank you Mrs. Sfaleos your legacy lives on in the many lives that have had the good fortune of knowing and learning from you.

Sending healing prayers.

God Bless!

Christine McKim

So sorry to hear of Patty's passing. We all bowled together many years ago.

I'm very sorry to hear about the loss of Ms. Sfaelos. She was one of my teachers when I was in 5th grade at West Freehold and she was probably one of the most memorable teachers that I've ever had. Her passion was always present and she certainly taught me valuable lessons that I took with me, even after all of these years. My thoughts and prayers go out to the entire family and I'm grateful for the time that I had with her.

Sue, Kristy and Laurie

What a life well-lived! Your Mom’s passion was children - teaching, her love of life grandchildren, and all of you.

No doubt she is already playing cards with Uncle ~ reminiscing memories of Ocean beach summers!

At peace, your Mom is now an angel watching over you. Her spirit shines even stronger through all of you!!

With heartfelt sympathy

Meg

My deepest sympathies to your entire family. Your mother taught all 3 of my sons. She truly loved all her students. I still use an expression I heard her say many times,” You have to know when and when not to.” I will miss her.... Rest in eternal peace and happiness Mrs. Sfaelos.

Please accept my heartfelt condolences on the loss of your Mom. Although we are miles apart, I'm with you in heart and spirit. My prayers are with you all. Pat will surely be missed.

Meg Anthes

Our deepest condolences for the loss of your mom. Thinking about all of you today.

Ginny and Bob Veltre