Ronald D. Scott passed away suddenly on Thursday, August 12, 2021. He was 64. I knew him as Uncle Ron.
I think everyone who knew Uncle Ron would agree that he was as genuine as they come. I will miss his smile, his sense of humor, his abounding positivity, his love.
Uncle Ron never missed a family event. He traveled to Florida for our wedding, even though I know it wasn't easy for him to do that. He told me he wouldn't have missed it for the world and I couldn't imagine not having him there. He called sometimes just to check in. At the end of each call he would tell me that he loved me. There was no theater or excessive sentimentality in the words, just pure sincerity.
Uncle Ron was on the 89th floor of the North Tower on the morning of September 11, 2001. With extraordinary courage and selflessness, he helped many people get out of the building before it fell. He helped carry a 70 year-old woman to safety. His quick thinking in fashioning masks out of coffee filters undoubtedly saved many lives.
Who could possibly find hope in those darkest of hours? Who could find the strength to push forward? The courage to press on when it must have seemed so hopeless? To put his own life in jeopardy without a moment's hesitation so that others might live?
I have been reflecting on these questions for the last few days as I grieve his loss and think about how to remember and honor him. Here's what I realized: Uncle Ron was a hero that day because of the same qualities that made him a hero every day. He was the most caring and compassionate person I have ever known. He approached life with optimism and positivity, even when things were not going so well. He always put the well-being of his friends and family, or even complete strangers, before his own. He was never one to give up. It wasn't in his nature.
I find myself wishing that I had called him more often and that I had spent more time with him, especially in recent years. I wish I could hear one more story or one more joke. I hope he knew how much he meant to me. I hope and pray that Uncle Ron will be remembered as a loving, compassionate, funny, and kind person, who brought light into the world even in the darkest hours.
I hope you will join me in honoring and celebrating him as a hero.
May his memory be a blessing.